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Reincarnation

I am sure you know I believe in reincarnation. Being an expert in past life regression I would have to be.  Basically, reincarnation (also known as rebirth or transmigration) is the idea that a non-physical part of a living being (soul or spirit) begins a new life in a different form or body after death.

Many religions and belief systems support the idea of reincarnation. For example, it is a central tenet of many of the religions of the Indian sub-continent such as Buddhism, Hinduism and Sikhism. It is also common in many pagan, as well as indigenous Americans and Australian, religious groups. And, although not a central tenet, reincarnation is a belief within many streams of modern Judaism.

The majority of Christian and Islamic denominations do not believe that individuals reincarnate. However, there are exceptions such as the Rosicrucians, the Druze and the Cathars. Regardless of specific beliefs in reincarnation, almost all religions believe in some form of afterlife – with god / in paradise or perhaps somewhere or something worse. Meaning that some part of ourselves continues beyond this lifetime.

Now this brings us to the idea of Karma. Essentially, the idea of cause and effect – your intent and actions in this life (cause) influences the future or future lives (effect). So, lead a good life and you may be wealthy in a future life. If you don’t you may come back as an insect. The Jamaican born English professional footballer and manager, John Barnes summarises this very well when he said, “My mother made me believe in reincarnation, in karma. If I live a good life, I believe I will be reincarnated as a higher being. If I live a bad life, I believe I will be reincarnated as a lower being”.

A belief in reincarnation was held by ancient Greek scholars such as Pythagoras, Socrates, and Plato. Also, despite the Roman Empire being converted to Christianity, they were several religious groups within it that believed in reincarnation.

In recent years the idea of reincarnation has become popular in Europe and North America and it is often referenced in contemporary media and literature. Indeed it’s common to hear someone say, “I must have been a… in a previous life” to explain some personal trait or skill. And there may be some real evidence for this. Willie Nelson (American country musician) said, “I started out really young, when I was four, five, six, writing poems, before I could play an instrument. I was writing about things when I was eight or 10 years old that I hadn’t lived long enough to experience. That’s why I also believe in reincarnation, that we were put here with ideas to pass around”.

Now the really exciting news is that it is possible to explore these past lives using past life regression. This can provide fascinating information about the origins of current personality traits as well helping to provide healing and forgiveness for past issues and traumas. If you are interested then contact me.

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GHP Mental Health Awards 2023

I am delighted to be able to tell you that I have been nominated for the Global Health & Pharma Mental Health Award 2023. It was very much unexpected and not something I was looking for. But it’s always nice to have some recognition for the work I do. As Shai Gilgeous-Alexander (Canadian professional basketball player) said “I’m just trying to get better every day. And I think if I do so, the accolades, the awards, the accomplishments will come”.

The GHP Mental Health Awards 2023 are designed to showcase businesses and professionals who place our mental health and well-being at the centre of their work. Nominees typically work in psychology, psychiatry, nursing, social work or support mental health.

The GHP Mental Health Awards are hosted by Global Health & Pharma magazine, a publication devoted to the healthcare and pharmaceutical industries. It has a global circulation of 110,000 and works to highlight the work of those that are setting the pace and looking to change their respective sectors for the better.

Inevitably being a Hypnotherapist you often come into contact with clients who have some form of mental health challenge. Be it dealing with an addiction, anxiety, a life affecting phobia, bereavement or more serious examples such as depression. This work is very important to me and being recognised for it is so motivating. As Alan Alda (US Actor) said, “Awards can give you a tremendous amount of encouragement to keep getting better, no matter how young or old you are”.

I doubt I will win an award, but if I do I will be sure to let you know. If you think Hypnotherapy can help you improve your life then contact me.

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Growth Club

As you may know I am a member of a Growth Club specifically for Hypnotherapists run by Sheila Granger.  She is a practising hypnotherapist who is also dedicated to helping other hypnotherapists to develop themselves and their businesses. For me it’s a way to get expert support from people who understand what it’s like to be a Hypnotherapist.

It’s also a great way to make friends and network. This is something that does not always come naturally to me, but as Sonia Sotomayor (US Supreme Court Justice) said, “Sometimes, idealistic people are put off the whole business of networking as something tainted by flattery and the pursuit of selfish advantage. But virtue in obscurity is rewarded only in Heaven. To succeed in this world you have to be known to people”.

On 14 January I attended a business training day at the club at the Arden Hotel, near the airport in Birmingham, UK. The event was designed specifically to help you plan for the year ahead. Over 20 people attended in person with more participating on line.

I am hoping, and planning, for 2023 to be a big year for me. And I hope the same for all of you. If you think hypnotherapy can help you achieve your goals then contact me to find out more.

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Hunt for Happiness Week

January 15 to 21 is Hunt for Happiness Week. Are you happy? Right now? Generally? It’s not the easy question you think it might be. For most people there are moments of joy as well as moments of anger and pain. So, you might say, “I am OK.”. But is being OK good enough? Generally, people do not think of themselves as happy in the normal course of life. This overlooks many reasons to be happy and this week is all about hunting for reasons to be happy.

But, what is happiness? A warm day at the beach, paddling in the cool, blue sea? No. That’s pleasure. OK. Going out for a few drinks with a group of friends? No. That’s enjoyment.  Basically, happiness is having you needs fulfilled. Not too difficult right?

So if you are not happy there are two main routes to pursue. Either you change your needs to meet what your life fulfils or you change your life to fulfil your needs. Changing your needs to meet your life is a tenet of Buddhism which teaches that life is full of suffering caused by desire and that this suffering ceases when desire ceases. Now that is certainly something to think about, but let’s continue our hunt for happiness in a different way.

Now, to have your needs fulfilled you have to know what you needs are. I have written in the past about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs which is a useful model to think about this.  He talks about physical needs (food, water, shelter, etc.), security needs (health, employment, accommodation, etc.), social needs (belonging, family, love, friendship, etc.), self-esteem needs (achievement and respect of others) and finally self-actualisation needs (creativity, self-expression, etc.). He also refers to it as a hierarchy as one group of needs underpins and supports the others. So, for example, you can’t focus of self-actualisation needs, if you don’t have enough food, water or shelter.

What if our needs are met, but we still don’t feel happy? Well are we grateful enough for what we do have? Do you appreciate your friends enough? Do you appreciate the beauty and wonder of nature? Perhaps thinking about or spending some of your time helping those less fortunate than you by working for a food bank or homeless shelter would help. 

One final point I would like to make about the pursuit of happiness is that some element of it is personal choice. As Julius Henry “Groucho” Marx (American Comedian and Actor) put it, “I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it”.

And now a little treat for you. It’s a song that was pretty much everywhere in the UK in 2022. The lyrics have a good message that speak to Buddhist philosophy and it’s something we can all learn from to some extent. Would you be happier if you were freed from desire?

If you think hypnotherapy can help you be happier, or with anything else, then contact me

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World Hypnotism Day

4 January is World Hypnotism Day. It’s an important day to help dispel the myths and misconceptions around Hypnotherapy and to promote it as the powerful and useful technique that it really is. Now if you are reading this you already know a bit about Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. But I wanted to write a blog post to mark the occasion. So, I have decide to share a little about the history of Hypnosis.

History records many stories of rituals that from a modern viewpoint look a lot like Hypnotism. Be it “healing passes” of the ancient Hinduism, biblical stories and sources from ancient Egypt, China, Greece and Rome. These are often described as magical or religious practices, but their goal was to cure people of ailments and help them to lead better lives.

The 17th and 18th centuries in Europe was known as the Age of Enlightenment or Age of Reason. It was an intellectual and philosophical movement that spawned many ideas and theories that are valid today. It was at this time that the early pioneer of hypnosis, Franz Anton Mesmer (1734 – 1815), from whom we get the word ‘mesmerise’, was born. As a young man, Mesmer studied theology and law before later moving into medicine. His doctoral thesis, completed at the University of Vienna in 1766, contained the origins of modern day hypnosis.  

He was the first to propose a rational basis for how hypnosis works and develop a consistent method for hypnotising patients. Sadly, he also included a great deal of ritual practices and other showmanship which has hampered the adoption and use of Hypnosis to this day.

Fortunately the fact that hypnosis works kept it alive as an idea. In the 19th Century surgeons and physicians began to explore the subject again. For example, John Elliotson (1791 –1868) who was the first in Britain to use and promote the stethoscope and one of the first to use acupuncture. In 1849 he founded the London Mesmeric Infirmary.

Initially a sceptic, James Braid (1795-1860) who studied medicine at the University of Edinburgh, became intrigued by the phenomenon. His research and dedication helped to removed hypnosis from the questionable associations of mesmerism by demonstrating the physical and biological mechanisms at the heart of Hypnosis.  This meant that by the end of the 19th century hypnosis was accepted as a valid clinical technique.

This trend continued into the 20th Century with an important shift in focus.  Hypnosis became a more popular and accessible, something that was increasingly available to the public and not reserved for the laboratory or clinic. Although there remains some elements of the media who still regard is as some sort of magic. As Derren Brown (English Mentalist and Author) said, “It used to frustrate me when I’d get celebrities on my shows and I had to meet them as this ludicrous magician character rather than as myself”.

Also in the 20th century, the style of hypnosis changed significantly. Instead of a direct instruction issued by an authoritarian figure (a throwback to the old fashioned charismatic mesmerist) a more indirect, conversational and permissive style of trance induction, based on subtly persuasive language patterns became common.  This was largely due to the work of practitioners like Milton H. Erickson (1901-1980).  He graduated from the University with an MA in Psychology and a Medical Degree, and went on to hold senior psychiatric posts in hospitals across America.

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Social Media Update

Just a quick note to let you know that I have set up an Instagram page. I have added some videos about Hypnotherapy and will be using it to showcase selected videos and content. I am also working on a Tik Tok account, but more news on that in the coming months. So, as well as the website, I now have a Facebook page and a YouTube channel for Paladin Hypnotherapy. Please follow me there and remember to like and subscribe.

As Narendra Modi (Indian Prime Minister) said, “Social media is reducing social barriers. It connects people on the strength of human values, not identities”. So, if you have any ideas as to what you would like to see then get in touch either here or on Facebook. I would love to hear from you.

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International Quality of Life Month

January is the World Health Organisation’s (WHO) International Quality of Life Month. It’s a time to think about your quality of life and that of those around you. And it comes at a good time of year for it. New Year is always a time to make changes and improve things.  There is nearly always something that you can add to (or remove from) your life to make it better or easier.

So, what can you do to improve your own quality of life? Well the first step is to think carefully about current quality of life, what is important to you and identify areas that you can change or improve. Major areas to consider include your job / occupation, mental health, physical health, home environment, financial stability and addictions such as nicotine and alcohol.

If you are employed, you will likely spend a large part of your life at work and it’s important to be happy when you are. Is your job a source of stress? Do you have all the resources and knowledge to do it properly? Do you have a friend at work to have a coffee or lunch with?

Mental health is critical, so how is your mental health? Are you stressed or anxious? Are you lonely? Do you socialise enough with others. Who is in your support network if you need to talk?

Is your physical health all it could be? Are you in pain? Could losing some weight help with pain and mobility? Would being more active help with wellbeing?

The other place you spend a lot of your life is your home and it’s paramount that it is a place of rest, security and safety. And Charles Kennedy (British Liberal Democrat politician) agrees. He said, “Quality of life actually begins at home – it’s in your street, around your community”. Is your home still suited to your needs? Do you have all the services and appliances you need? Is the neighbourhood and the neighbours friendly?

Do you have enough money to pay your bills and be comfortable? This, more than ever, is a serious problem for many in our society. Could you reduce your outgoings or increase your income somehow?

Do you have unwanted habits that reduce your quality of life and perhaps drain your resources? Would stopping or reducing the amount you drink or smoke be helpful? Could you improve your health and save some money be losing weight?

Now once you have considered all this, there may be more than one thing you want to change or improve. But I would urge you to be realistic to increase the chances of these lifestyle changes lasting for the long term. Quitting smoking, going teetotal and taking on a new part time job might be too much. So, which one thing could you do to improve your quality of life? Which one thing would make the most difference? Do that first and then tackle the others.

So, this is a time for you to commit to improving your life and the lives of those around you. Everyone deserves to be happy and the aim is to achieve happiness as best you can.

Hypnotherapy can help with break unwanted habits and routines as well as help to support good mental and physical health. So, if you think it could help you, then contact me.